UN-complaint (G/SO 215/51 GERM. GEN)
of Hickman against the Children's Welfare Office (Jugendamt) of Wilhelmshaven
10.09.2001

 

Bernd Michael Uhl

Germany
Wilhelmshaven, 10 September 2001
UN-Commission des Droits de l'homme
Avenue de la Paix
1211 Genève 10
Switzerland

 

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Dear Ladies and Gentlemen, The ongoing Human Rights Violations in Germany, mostly concerning the non-observance of :
  • the Universal Declaration of Human Rights
  • the UN-Rights of the Child (CRC),
  • the Hague Convention on Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction,
  • the European Convention for the Protection of Fundamental Freedoms and Human Rights,
  • National German laws for the protection of the child & family and the well-being of the child.
by German Youth Offices (Jugendamt) and authorities, make it necessary for us to address you with this matter of utmost importance.
Place of occurence : Wilhelmshaven / East Frisia / Lower Saxony - GERMANY

In the present case the Youth Office of the City of Wilhelmshaven is accused of the following crimes: Legal inflection which results in :
  • Violation of the German Constitution and national laws (civil code, criminial code) for the protection of the child & family and the well-being of the child
  • Violation of the Hague Convention on Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction which has the sense to guarantee the natural family relationships and bonds to the child
  • Violation of the International Rights of the Child
  • Violation of Human Rights
  • Violation of the Authority's responsibility towards the child and the family
  • Refusal to hear complaints regarding the rights of the child and the parents
  • Discrimination and character assassination of a foreign father

  1. We are concerned parents and grandparents of parental child abduction and experts working in the field of international child abduction and parental alienation. In the course of our series of actions and awareness campaigns we have been present in Washington, Paris, Chicago, Berlin, and Wilhelmshaven (Germany). During our actions there were parents among us who had children in the respective cities.
  2. The South African father Michael Hickman, whose sons were abducted to Germany in February 1996 by their mother and grandmother, took part in the Berlin international hunger strike of parents and grandparents with the leitmotiv "International Rights of the Child - Children need both parents" in July-August 2001.
  3. On 2 August 2001, a delegation of the German Federal Ministry of Justice and of the Task Force for the Settlement of International Conflicts in Child Affairs promised to the Berlin hunger strikers the following :
    • to implement sanctions against the boycott of access and the abuse of the concerned children by the child abducting parents
    • to improve the German visit/access regulations which are being strongly criticized both inside and outside Germany

  4. The South African citizen Michael Hickman was the first hunger striker after the Berlin hunger strike to have an access/custody hearing after the international hunger strike. The hearing took place in Wilhelmshaven, Lower Saxony, Germany on 15 August 2001.
  5. The day of the court hearing we were engaged in another one of our actions. This day we held a solidarity watch near the district family court of Wilhelmshaven to monitor the respect of Human Rights. The local newspaper reported objectively about our action. Over the last decades Germany has been constantly judged by the European Court of Human Rights due to the violation of the fundamental Human Rights in respect of a fair trial. Germany was judged by the European Court of Human Rights for Violations of Human Rights in Art. 6 (Right to a fair trial) and Art. 8 (Protection of family life) in the case of the family matter Elsholz on 13 July 2000. Since then it stands as law : "Visitation/Access Rights are Human Rights!".
  6. During the court hearing a supervised visit was fixed for the 21 August 2001 at 15:30. The social worker of the local Youth office, charged with the present case, was tasked to meet with the father and the children together with a psychologist of the local institute of child psychology. The psychologist was assigned with the task to evaluate the intitial contact between the children and their father in the presence of the social worker. Thereafter the children and their father together with the social worker were to make an excursion (e.g. beach, town center etc.)
  7. On 21 August 2001, at 9:30, the left-behind father Michael Hickman learnt from the social worker of the city of Wilhelmshaven that the planned meeting with the children had been cancelled because the mother had said that the children did not want to see their father. This clearly shows the bias of the social worker of the city of Wilhelmshaven as well the results of hostile parenting and parental alienation which is being supported and encouraged by the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven. Thereby the social worker of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven has clearly violated the Rights of the children concerned as well as the European Convention for the Protection of Fundamental Freedoms and Human Rights for the concerned and left-behind parents.
  8. Hostile parenting and parental alienation is the general consequence of parental child abduction. "Parental Child Abduction is Child Abuse" (see the report by Nancy Faulkner to the United Nations Convention on Child Rights, 9 June 1999).
  9. The task and the responsibility of the Youth Office is to work in the interest and the well-being of the child and mediate between the parents in order to guarantee the natural family relationships and bonds to the child.
  10. The social Youth Office worker of the city of Wilhelmshaven took the law into her own hands in that she did not :
    • follow and enforce the court order of 15 August 2001
    • meet at the psychologist's office together with the left-behind father as instructed by the court
    • ensure that the mother complied with the court order
    • contact the family judge to ask for sanctions against the mother to prevent the violation of the court order

  11. The competent family judge at the district court of Wilhelmshaven did not intervene to ensure the contact took place although he had prior knowledge that the mother had the intention to violate his court order and that the Youth Office had refused to mediate. The concerned father would have had to fly back to South Africa without the children having seen their father.
  12. The Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven constantly abuses the Rights of the Children and left-behind parents and grandparents by refusing to mediate between the parties. The Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven supports and encourages :
    • parental child abduction
    • hostile parenting
    • parental alienation
    • cultural alienation

  13. Since 27 August 2001, we are continuing our international series of actions with the protest Wilhelmshaven II "Visitation/Access Rights are Human Rights".
  14. The Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven has shown no interest in our actions whatsoever and have refused to speak to us and to the concerned parent among us even although the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven was informed about our action for the Rights of the Child and Human Rights by :
    • the local press
    • our personal written invitations to visit our action
    • our personal telephonic invitations to visit our action
    • our personal visit to the Youth Office

  15. On 4 September 2001, we personally visited members of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven. As the responsible person of the action on the spot I tried to awake interest by the social workers present as to our international research project "In the Interest of the Child". The respective Youth Office workers declined all interest in participation and argued that they were not competent. I handed over to the social workers two written invitations for the director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven to visit our action and to arrange a meeting for information/presentation. I invited all present social workers as well to pay us a visit. They refused the invitation.
  16. During our international actions in Willhemhaven we have repeatedly tried to get into contact with the social Youth Office worker in charge without result. Eventually we were told that she was on sick leave.
  17. On enquiry we were told that Mr. Viering was deputising for the sick Youth office worker in charge of the case.
  18. On 6 September 2001, I called Mr. Viering, who is the deputy director of the Youth Office to invite him to familliarise himself with our actions for the following reasons :
    • for him to take part in an information/presentation meeting about parental child abduction and parental alienation and our international actions
    • for him to talk to the present concerned and left-behind parent from South Africa
    • for him to receive children's books donated as presents to the father as presents for the concerned children with the request to meet the children and to hand over these presents from their father
    Mr. Viering, the deputy director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven, refused all invitations and requests made by me. Mr. Viering refused to mediate and to speak to the concerned parent. Mr. Viering refused to receive the presents for the concerned children and to hand them over.
  19. According to the statement of Mr. Viering, he had a political order not to take a stance during election time which could influence the outcome of the forthcoming communal elections. Election in Wilhelmshaven was set for 9 September 2001. Mr. Viering refused to speak to me further. Mr. Viering hung up without making apology. The Youth Office is neither a political organ nor a political party; neither should it be assuming this role. The task and the responsibility of the Youth Office is to work in the interests and the welll-being of the child and to mediate between the parents in order to guarantee the natural family relationship and bonds to the child. It is quite obvious that the present Youth Office is not run by the state but by political parties. According to Mr. Viering, deputy director, the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven works "In the Interest of political parties" and not "In the Interests of the Child".
  20. On 6 September 2001, after having called Mr. Viering, deputy director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven, I then called Mr. Jürjens, the director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven and once again Mr. Viering answered. He informed me that he was deputising in the absence of his superior, the director, who was on leave. Mr. Viering, deputy director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven, refused to inform me when Mr. Jürjens,  the director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven, would be back from leave so that I could contact him directly. Mr. Viering refused to speak to me further and once again hung up without excusing himself.
  21. On 6 September 2001, after having attempted to make contact to the director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven, I then called the personal secretary of Mr. Menzel, the Mayor of Wilhelmshaven. I invited the Mayor to visit our action for information/presentation purposes and to discuss the problems that we had experienced with the Youth Office. In adition, I asked his personal secretary to forward the request to the Mayor, to explain who in Wilhelmshaven gave the order to the Youth Office to act accordingly to political guidelines. I requested that the Mayor return my call, this he did not do. 
  22. On 7 September when we tried to get into contact with Mr.Viering by phone, we were told that Mr.Viering was on sick leave.
  23. The behaviour and the argument of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven is typical of current Youth Office practise in Germany. This is the typical behaviour of the Youth Office as part of the supporting environment of an abducting parent after parental child abduction with the aim to break all contact between the concerned children and the left-behind parent.
  24. General : The Consequences and Sequential Mechanisms of Parental Child Abduction

  25. After parental child abduction the abducting parent generally attempts to :
    • legalise the child abduction by gaining custody decisions in his/her favour in the refugee state/environment often by dubious means
    • justify morally the child abduction to the concerned children, himself/herself, the respective families, the neighbourhood and the entire refugee environment
    Therefore the abducting parent will generally blame the left-behind parent for his/her own deeds saying that they had no other option but to do what they did to distract from their own crime against humanity. His/her family naturally supports the abducting parent in this strategy as they don't want to allow the perception that their own family member has committed a criminal and inhumane act. Together they attempt with every method possible to convince their environment that their actions were necessary and justified. The general strategies employed to justify on moral and legal grounds their actions are :
    • to gain court custody custody hearings without the left-behind parent, without being notified of the pending court hearing
    • to bring about discrimination, defamation, humiliation, and crimianalisation of the left-behind parent :
      • the abducting parent and his/her environment accuses the left-behind parent of the intention to commit the same crime of child abduction which they themselves have committed. A second reason is that the abducting parent argues that the left-behind parent will influence the children negatively against the abducting parent. Naturally the abducting parent denies that he/she has been negatively influencing the children against the left-behind parent since the abduction. (These are among others the major reasons why only supervised contact is granted by the courts between the concerned children, parents, and grandparents. In Germany, these supervised contacts are mainly supervised by social workers of the local Youth Office.)
      • the supervised contact humilates both the children and the left-behind parent in an environment which is inhumane in the extreme and reminiscent of being in jail. (The supervised contact gives the impresion to the children that something is very wrong with their left-behind parent that they have not seen for a long time. The concerned parents and grandparents are depicted as criminals.)

    Consequently, the abducting environment to justify their actions leave themselves no choice other than to abuse the basic rights of the concerned children. Hostile parenting and parental alienation are strategies applied against children to destroy their natural rights and bonds to their left-behind parent. Finally they deny their desire to contact with the left-behind environment. The logic of this mechanism is based on the following. Should the abducting parent not affect and hinder the relationsship between abducted children and left-behind parent, the children :
    • would keep interest in their left-behind parent and family and would confront the abducting environment with questions about the left-behind environment. (This is not in the interest of the abducting environment because they want the concerned children to forget or even hate the left-behind environment. Otherwise the children could have doubts about the behaviour of the abducting environment.)
    • would like to keep the natural contact with the left-behind parent and grandparents
    • would like to keep interest in the language and culture of the left-behind parent, as well as in the previous country of residence (This culteral alienation leads to racism.)
    • would like to retain their bicultural identity
    • would like to visit the left-behind parent and grandparents at their former habitual residence. (In this case, the abducting environment fears that the children would like to stay within the left-behind environment. The abducting environment is quite aware that they exercise constant pressure on the children and abuse them to have them on their side.)

    The more the left-behind parent and his/her environment tries to keep contact with the children, the more ferocious the abducting environment reacts to prevent contact to the left-behind environment according to the strategies mentioned above. If the refugee environment of the abducting parent has already racist tendencies in their general mentality as experienced in Germany these strategies against the left-behind environment of abducted children is even more intense.

  26. The behaviour and argument by Mr. Viering, deputy director of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven and the general attitude of the Youth Office of Wilhelmshaven clearly shows that they are actively involved in and support the abducting environment. In Wilhelmshaven, a German town of about 80.000 habitants, it would strongly appear that political, private, and financial connections are being used for the ongoing abuse of the rights of the children.


Yours respectfully Bernd Michael Uhl